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Who Stole The Spirit Of Christmas?
By: Nicola Bullimore
Once again it is the time of year where it is impossible to forget that
Christmas is just around the corner, we see advertising on our TV’s, in the
shops, on the radio and we read about it in magazines and newspapers, but what
is Christmas all about? How have things changed since the time that Christmas
began?
Originally Christmas was all about Christians celebrating the birth of Jesus,
now it has become a time where the kids are looking forward to seeing what Santa
has left for them in their Christmas stockings and under the Christmas tree.
Santa Claus (St. Nicholas) was a wealthy man who gave gifts to poor who were
struggling financially, however, he didn’t want them to know where the gifts had
come from, so he gave in such a way so the folk would find his gifts but not
know who gave them, hence the myth about Father Christmas.
However, for many people nowadays, Christmas has become a time where families
worry about the cost of Christmas rather than looking forward to the occasion.
The temptation to take out loans and credit cards can prove to be irresistible
with the thought of Christmas costs looming and how they are going to afford it.
Having said that, people do like to celebrate Christmas, it is a time for
families, parties and celebrations, however, the costs involved are still a
major factor of the celebrations. The purchasing of decorations, food, drink and
spending on travel all adds to the cost proving that Christmas is the most
expensive time of year for families in the UK.
The Association of Payment Clearing Services (Apacs) said they expect the total
UK spending in December to be a staggering £48.7bn, a rise of 11% on last years
spend in that one month!
Free debt advice agencies such as Payplan say that the amount of enquiries they
usually experience in December is significantly less in comparison to other
months throughout the year, however February is the time they receive the
highest amount of enquiries, due to debtors denying the true cost of Christmas
until they realise their finances have been crippled.
The figures reflect what happens in the credit industry in the months
surrounding December. People take out loans or spend on credit cards in order to
keep up with the costs of Christmas and then look for ways to deal with their
finances in the New Year. A survey conducted by Payplan in 2003 showed that over
45% of people were still paying for presents bought in 2002.
Already people who use debt forums are talking about how they are feeling the
pressure of Christmas and looking for ways to ease the stress and find ways to
cope with Christmas costs without adding to their existing debt problems. “It’s
just a bit of a depressing time for people trapped in debt!!” said one poster,
“The true sprit of Christmas has been hijacked by marketing and advertising
people and whipped into a three months spending frenzy “ said another.
Marketing and advertising make their job of easing the costs very difficult, but
they are determined not to get into more financial difficulty because of the
price tag on Christmas, “I have been buying stocking fillers for the children in
sales when I see them and I have told all family my limit is £5 each as they are
token gifts and its the thought that counts. All my family have more disposable
income than I do. So with such a small budget I have been doing alot of shopping
around. “
Christmas needs to be a time to put smiles on peoples faces, not to cause stress
and difficulty in trying to keep up with all the costs put before them in order
to enjoy, what should be a happy occasion. “Christmas is about family and I hope
my family understand that it is better to have a token gift rather than get me
in debt again.”
About the Author:
Nicky has been working with people with debt problems (
www.debtquestions.co.uk ) for a number of years. "Every situation is
different and anyone in debt should not have to pay to get out of debt". Nicky
also administrates an online debt forum where she also offers advice and
solutions for people seeking answers to their debt questions.
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